Hey, my name’s Cody Butler, and I help married women and couples restore, repair, and rebuild broken marriages to recreate the intimacy, emotional intimacy, physical intimacy, connection, communication, and fulfillment that you once experienced in your marriage. You can have it again, and you can have it a lot quicker than you might imagine.
So, I’m guessing if you found me here and you’re listening to this video right now, if you’re listening to me talk, it’s because you’re struggling in a marriage.
You’re in a marriage that isn’t fulfilling you, satisfying you, filling you up, and completing you. Maybe you’re thinking about leaving the marriage. Maybe you’re looking for ways to correct that.
Maybe you’re just here because you’re curious. But regardless of what has happened in the marriage, I’m here to tell you that marriages absolutely, positively, 100% can be restored.
They can be repaired. They can be rebuilt, and the intimacy, love, and connection can happen again very, very quickly.
Now, the default state of a marriage is it tends to decline. We start out in the infatuation stage of a marriage where we’re absolutely infatuated with the other person, and they’re infatuated with us. We tend to overlook some characteristics and stuff like that that were always there but we kind of ignored it in the beginning.
And as that infatuation wears off and we start to move into the commitment stage and the more mature stages of marriage where the infatuation isn’t there, then we start to see the problems and we start to see the character.
I don’t want to say flaws, but the characteristics of the other person that may not be quite as great as we like. And that’s when it starts to get really, really tough. And quite often, with the majority of people that I work with, they find themselves in a marriage after 20 years or more, after a long time, and they’ve raised kids, and they’ve given themselves completely to their husband, and they’ve given themselves completely to their kids, and they’ve literally given themselves away for a long, long time.
And now, maybe the kids have left home, or maybe you’ve got a bit more free time on your hands, and you’re thinking, “Who am I? Where am I? What am I? What do I want out of life? What do I want out of this marriage?” And maybe you’re a little bit disillusioned with the marriage.
Maybe you’re thinking, “What do I do? How do I correct this marriage? Or should I even stay in this marriage?” Now, I’m not here to tell you that you should stay or you should go. Some marriages should end.
There’s no doubt about that. But what I want to share with you, what I want to help you with, is to know with certainty. So regardless of the decision that you make, whether you decide to stay in the marriage, whether you decide to end the marriage, there is literally zero regrets on the table. It’s a zero regret policy. So if you decide to stay, I want to help you.
Get the skills to make the marriage and restore the marriage back to its prime, back to the best it can be, even better than it can be. And that really, really is possible. I know it’s hard to believe right now, but the reality is that marriage skills are very rare. 60% of the population right now gets a divorce, and the remaining 40% that stay married, the majority of those are in unhappy marriages. Why is that? Because successful marriage skills are not easily accessible. Not many people know about them, and they are not readily available.
That’s why the vast majority of marriages end in divorce or, for those who stay, end up in stagnation. It becomes a contractual obligation where both parties say, “Hey, don’t piss me off too bad, and I won’t piss you off too bad. You meet my needs in this area, and I’ll meet your needs in this area.” It’s no way to live whatsoever.
I’m here to help you with that. That’s what this channel is about, that’s what Better Marriage is about. So we’re going to give you the skills to restore, repair, and rebuild your marriage. We’ll bring back the intimacy, communication, and connection, and give you fulfillment. You’ll be able to rediscover who you are and what you want in a marriage. And if you decide that maybe the marriage needs to end, you’ll be able to do that with an absolutely zero regret policy.
You’ll have all the tools you need and will have taken all the necessary steps so that when you actually end the marriage, if you decide to, you won’t look back and say, “If only I did this, I should have tried that. Maybe I pressed the eject button a little too soon.” That’s not going to happen.
So that’s it for me. Check out this channel. I post trainings all the time on various marriage-related topics. Subscribe to the channel, give us a like, leave a comment, say hello, someone who is in a struggling marriage right now. We all know somebody in that situation. I’ll talk to you all very soon.
