Struggling With The Heartbreak Of A Broken Marriage?
We Help Men Save Their Marriages by Confronting Hidden Trauma, Overcoming Their Deepest Demons, and Evolving into the Strongest, Most Powerful Version of Themselves
Does it feel like your world is falling apart, affecting not only your relationship but also your mental health, your confidence, and your sense of self-worth?
Maybe you’re battling:
- Constant anxiety that you can’t shake
- Overwhelming stress that clouds your mind
- Low confidence and self-esteem, feeling like you’re not enough
If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. We understand the deep emotional pain and confusion that come when the foundation of your marriage begins to crumble. But here’s the truth: This isn’t just about saving your marriage—it’s about saving yourself.
Our program isn’t another “get your wife back” quick fix. It goes far beyond that.
We focus on the real issues—the ones you might not talk about, but that weigh heavily on your heart. The hidden trauma from your past, the addictions or habits that are slowly taking over, the inner demons that keep you stuck in the same patterns.
It’s time to confront these head-on.
We help men take their lives back by focusing on deep, personal transformation. We equip you with the tools to heal your mind, restore your confidence, and rebuild your self-esteem. By doing the inner work, you won’t just learn how to save your marriage—you’ll become the strongest, most powerful version of yourself.
This is about evolving, about becoming a man who isn’t defined by his past mistakes or his current struggles, but by his commitment to growth, healing, and change.
You’ll learn how to take control of your life again, not just for your marriage, but for your own peace of mind. Imagine breaking free from anxiety, overcoming stress, and finding the confidence you’ve been missing for years.
Saving your marriage is the by-product of this journey, but the real victory is winning yourself back. Becoming the man who is truly capable of leading a healthy, loving, and strong relationship.
If you’re ready to transform, we’re here to help you every step of the way. It’s time to stop merely surviving and start thriving.
Take the first step toward a better you, a better marriage, and a better life.
Our Mission
Our mission is to break the chains of generational trauma and relationship brokenness, bringing renewal, strength, and healing to men who are ready to rise above the struggles that have held them back.
For too long, you’ve been working with the tools you were given—tools passed down through generations, from your father, his father, and so on. Tools shaped by unresolved trauma, pain, and broken patterns. But this is your chance to change everything.
You’re standing at the crossroads, where you can decide to no longer pass down the legacy of hurt and dysfunction to your children. Imagine breaking free from the cycles that have caused you and those before you so much pain, and instead, creating a future filled with strength, confidence, and love.
This is your moment for renewal. Your opportunity to heal the deepest wounds, conquer your inner demons, and transform yourself into the man you were always meant to be—a man of strength, integrity, and love. Through this transformation, you won’t just heal your marriage and your relationships; you’ll model for your children what it means to live with purpose, confidence, and emotional freedom.
Without intentional action, the same cycles of pain and brokenness will be passed on, leaving the next generation to bear the weight. But with courage, you can break the cycle. You can be the one to end the chain of trauma and weakness, and replace it with a legacy of strength, resilience, and love.
We are here to help you heal, rebuild, and renew—so that the story doesn’t end with your pain, but with your triumph.
Let’s do this together.
Why Choose Me To Help Save Your Marriage?
Great question! My answer is that I encourage you to do a little research and find the answer for yourself.
I’m not here to convince you to work with me. I’m here to offer you an alternative that’s different from what you have now. If you want it, great. If not, that’s okay too!
Be highly skeptical, not just of what I tell you, but of what anybody tells you about your wife, your family, and what’s possible.
Question everything and do your due diligence.
We’re talking about your wife, your family, and the rest of your life. Who you decide to trust is a HUGE decision with HUGE consequences, and it deserves careful consideration.
I’ve posted over 400 videos on YouTube, including tutorials, interviews, and success stories.
Check them out and see for yourself. Watch some videos, get a feel for my coaching style, and decide if I’m the “Real Deal” or just another “Snake Oil” salesman.
Hi, I'm Cody Butler
Before you even think about trusting me, let me share a few things about myself.
Back in 2005, I was a very unhappy person, severely depressed to the point I couldn’t even get out of bed for days at a time. I was suffering from chronic anxiety and felt totally lost. I’d been in a series of painfully failed relationships, and to top it all off, I drank too much, too often.
I Decided Something Had To Change
I started to study “relationships.” I became obsessed with it. I read books, took courses, attended seminars, and sought out coaches—anything I could find to gain the skills I needed for a successful relationship.
Love Is Something You Attract…Not Command
I discovered that the secret to a successful relationship was to work harder on myself than on my spouse. I had always blamed my spouse for the failures and never thought for a second that maybe I had something to do with it. All my relationships had followed a similar pattern of failure, and what was the “lowest common denominator” in all of this? The answer was me.
I also saw the same patterns in friends’ and colleagues’ relationships. Now, I’m not saying you’re to blame—far from it! What I am saying is that you have 100% ability to change yourself and zero ability to make your spouse change against their will.
Fight the Battles That Can Be Won
Learn The Skills
I learned the skills of how to have a successful relationship (and have been happily married ever since). I learned how to communicate effectively. I learned how to get my needs met while meeting my wife’s needs. I learned how to create a shared vision and purpose for our marriage. Best of all, these skills are learnable very quickly for anyone with the desire to do so.
I Could See Others Were Suffering
I also saw that most people around me were suffering too. I knew there was a solution, I knew a different path, and I wanted to share it. You see, marriage is not a skill that is taught in school, and our parents most likely didn’t do any better.
And that’s why I do what I do. You don’t need to suffer; there is another way besides totally sacrificing yourself or divorcing.
Schedule a call now, and start the process of transforming not just your marriage but your life.