So, you just got married, and now you’re looking for some tips on how to keep the marriage strong and alive after you’ve gotten married. Hey Cody here, and welcome back! I’m going to share with you some tips and tricks on how to keep the marriage strong, how to keep it alive and passionate, and full of energy and enthusiasm. Now that you’re married and in that marriage relationship, this is really, really easy, right?
And here it is: if you want to keep the marriage passionate, enthusiastic, alive, and excited, keep doing what it is that you did before you got married.
That’s it. That’s all there is to it. Now, 10 years down the road, I work with a lot of couples when we’re at a point where the marriage has collapsed, and we’re restoring the marriage, bringing it back to a place of passion, love, and enthusiasm.
And here’s what happens all the time: at some point, they stopped doing what it was that made them fall in love with each other. They stopped doing what it was that got them together in the first place. And it happens all the time.
Once we get married, it seems like something changes, and it seems like we move into a different phase of life, and we stopped doing what it was before we got married. And that really, really is the key: to identify what it was, what it is that you love about the person, and the things that you did together, the hobbies, and the mutual interests before you got married, and keep doing them after you get married. If you do that, then you have a very, very good chance of keeping the passion and enthusiasm alive within the marriage.
If you stop doing what it was that made you fall in love, then we’re going to have a lot more work to do down the road to help recover your marriage at a much, much later date. And it’s all avoidable. Prevention is the best cure, right?
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