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Warning signs marriage is falling apart

Warning Signs of a Marriage Falling Apart

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Warning Signs of a Marriage Falling Apart: Have you suddenly realised you are in a troubled relationship and your marriage is in danger of falling apart? Somewhere along the line, the spark has gone out, and you feel like it has been replaced with a cold lump of coal.

A significant part of rebuilding a marriage is recognising when it might be crumbling around you. If you have noticed any of the following signs, it might be time to take some positive action towards restoring your marriage.

You and Your Partner Argue Constantly

Every marriage has its fair share of arguments, and some conflict is healthy. Experts even suggest that effective arguing in a marriage makes them 10 times more likely to succeed than couples who fail to confront their issues.
However, if the time you spend together features a rerun of the same arguments without resolution, then it’s a sign that the two of you are no longer on the same page and have drifted apart.

You No Longer Argue

While some arguing is good for the relationship, no arguments can also indicate that the marriage is not healthy. On the surface, an argument free marriage might seem like a good thing, but it’s more likely to be a sign that one or both of you have given up and are past caring.

You Avoid Spending Time Together

It’s good to have a social life outside of the marriage. However, if you or your partner are constantly making excuses to delay getting home after work or regularly come up with reasons to spend most of your free time away from your spouse, it could be a sign that the relationship has deteriorated.

You are Keeping Secrets

We all deserve a little privacy, but deliberately keeping things from your partner, such as dinner with a co-worker of the opposite sex, is not a sign of a healthy marriage. Other secrets that might damage a relationship could be financials, such as making expensive purchases you said you wouldn’t. Secrets will lead to distrust, which can be extremely challenging to regain.

You are Keeping Secrets

The brain filters information according to what it deems most important. When your attention is focused inwards, words and deeds are often misinterpreted and can seem like a personal attack instead of an innocent comment or request.

You No Longer Confide in Your Partner

Your spouse provides the bedrock of your emotional support in a healthy marriage, during good and bad times. Of course, you also confide with your friends and family, but it’s a different level from what you have with your partner.
When your spouse is no longer your go-to person for your emotional issues, it could be a sign that your relationship has slipped off the rails.

You Are Considering Infidelity

It’s only natural to find other people attractive other than your partner. Getting married doesn’t turn off your biological switch, after all.
But when is it not okay? When you start fantasizing about being with that other person or find it difficult to get them out of your head, it’s likely your marriage is missing something.

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You may think the challenges in your marriage are unsolvable but don’t give up hope. A professional marriage counsellor can provide a different perspective and shed new light on your issues. By doing so they can highlight ways you can start to repair the damage and rebuild the bond you had with your spouse.

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